Few things cause more panic than opening a wedding invite and seeing the words “Black Tie Optional” or “Beach Formal.” What does that even mean? Don’t worry—you’re not the only one who’s wondered. Let’s break down the most common wedding dress codes so you can show up confident, comfortable, and camera-ready.

👑 White Tie

This is the fanciest of the fancy.

  • For men: A tailcoat, white bow tie, and shiny shoes.

  • For women: A full-length ball gown with your best jewelry.

Think royal gala vibes. Honestly, it’s rare, but if you ever get invited to one—wow.

🎩 Black Tie

This is what most people think of as “formal.”

  • For men: A tuxedo with a bow tie.

  • For women: A floor-length gown or a really dressy cocktail dress.

If the wedding’s in the evening, this is a safe bet for glitz and glam.

🤵 Black Tie Optional (a.k.a. Formal)

This one trips people up, but here’s the deal:

  • For men: A tuxedo is great, but a dark suit and tie works just fine.

  • For women: A long dress, cocktail dress, or even elegant separates.

It’s basically: “Dress fancy if you want, but you don’t have to go full tux.”

 

🍸 Cocktail Attire

The sweet spot between formal and casual.

  • For men: A suit and tie (lighter colors for day, darker for night).

  • For women: A fun cocktail dress, jumpsuit, or chic skirt-and-top combo.

It’s polished, but you can still dance without tripping over a gown.

🌿 Semi-Formal (a.k.a. Dressy Casual)

A little more relaxed.

  • For men: Dress pants and a button-down, with or without a tie/jacket.

  • For women: A sundress, midi dress, or nice separates.

If you’re not sure, think “nice dinner out” level.

🏖️ Beach Formal

Yes, it’s the beach, but it’s still a wedding.

  • For men: A light suit or linen pants with a dress shirt (skip the tie if it’s hot).

  • For women: A flowy maxi or sundress with wedges or sandals.

Key tip: heels + sand = disaster. Leave the stilettos at home.

👟 Casual

Chill vibes only.

  • For men: Khakis or nice pants with a button-down or polo.

  • For women: A cute sundress or casual but polished outfit.

It doesn’t mean jeans and flip-flops (unless the couple specifically says so).

The Bottom Line

If you’re stuck, it’s always better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed. When in doubt, lean classic—you’ll blend right in, and you’ll look great in photos. Most importantly? Wear something you can celebrate in all night long. 🎉